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HOW PEOPLE GASLIGHT YOU WITH THE BORING TAG.

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 Hey Man there's a party just across the street, bad ass girls, weed, raunchy games and mad fun! Let's go chill and unwind.

If your answer is "NO", they try to shame you with a boring tag and gaslight you into thinking you're about to miss out on the best there is.


Let's go to the club

Let's go light some weed

Let's go fuck some good pussy 


Notice the pattern? 

It's never about your benefits and self improvement.

They all go mute when it's time to put you up for business.

If you put a call through" about needing a business or money" then their tone changes.

" I'm not sure you can do this" " the business ain't all that profitable" " networking is just a mirage" ( the excuses are so loud)

If you think I could have fun with you, why not put me on how to break bread with you?


Society is normalizing recklessness as a personality trait, until you run into a deep mess and then you are another casualty ( expendable).

Boring is not a person, rather a mood!.

The same guy who refuses to club today can become a party animal on his birthday or another event. It's all about how you are feeling, and your priority at a particular time.


Refuse the boring tag as an assessment of your value as a person. Reputation is such an asset in the world today, and it could be your only leverage when there's a room full of opportunities without you in it.

Guard your time and accessibility. Be intentional with your values and standards.

Don't let society decide what is fun for you, unless you become a pawn in the system. 


The question always ends the same way.

Did anyone force you?

You already know the answer to that.

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