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FACE OF A HATER, MIND OF A FAN

 A lot of people are watching!

If you have a super power to see the abstract, you will be surprised at the amount of people watching you secretly.

Maybe they want you to fail or they are just curious. Some are waiting to see the end result, while only a tiny fraction genuinely want to see you win. 


Everyday you show up , someone sees you 

When you fail to show up, another person is seen.

If you continually refuse to show up, more people are seen and you go down the radar.

What does it tell you?

Everyone that comes across you is watching 

Not everyone would drop a comment,

Not everyone would leave a like or a positive review about your life and business in general.

It could be the ego or the innate nature of humans to associate with success.

Whatever it is, know that a shadow of eyes are noticing.


Your enemies want to see you fail and they are constantly watching every thing you do.

Their facial expressions are mean, their body language is unreceptive, they eagerly want you to fail, but they have one weakness which is CURIOSITY.

That's the face of a hater, the mind of a fan!

A fan is the first to check your page,

Buy your book,

Read news about you.

A fan literally follows everything you!


That's your cue!

Channel your mind to see the positive and take advantage of it.

How do I leverage on this free followership and visibility?

How do I put up a good show for the ghost watchman?

The mind of a fan is forever curious to know what's next about his favorite celebrity.. Fans don't know when to stop, they are extremists and loyalist in the same accord.


The hater is not going to stop until you fail, so there's no lack of motivation.

They are a constant reminder of why you need to get that deal, pass that exams and make that money!

Don't be that celebrity who lost a loyal fan because he couldn't sell his talent beyond the surface level.


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