Ego clouds rationality!
In a woman and Man relationship dynamic, the ability to read signs, body language, words, actions will determine how successful you get.
Logic is your best bet as a Man, because it helps you make decisions that are beneficial to your well being ( emphasis on beneficial).
The average Man thinks power is loud, they want to prove and conquer, instead of receiving in abundance. They want to brag about scoring a good goal when the most important rule of a game is to score a goal.
Paying attention to the body language of a woman will tell you if she wants to be with you out of her own will or not.
Her words and actions are a reflection of her thoughts, as so should be your source of accountability.
Most guys know when a woman doesn't want them, but they think they have the ability to change, convince or subdue her against her initial will.
The money game starts ( maybe I should give her more money)
Attention spamming ( maybe I should call her more)
Overlooking her excesses ( condoning disrespect and lack of accountability)
All of which takes off your only valuable currency.
The only power that a Man has over a woman without mincing words is YOUR ABILITY TO WALK AWAY.
What beats my imagination is that a Man knows when a woman likes him, he has probably fumbled one before.
It's the easiest thing to know!
So why will you subject yourself to ridicule because of your Ego.
Have you no respect for yourself?
A woman would boldly tell you she has men kneeling and begging her just to take his call ( there is no lie in this whatsoever, the average man is shamefully obsessed with sex even if it costs him losing respect).
It's okay if she says NO( walk away)
If she doesn't reply to your text ( walk away)
If she doesn't take or return your calls ( walk away)
The real power is your ability to walk away.
The only exception to this rule is giving her the benefit of doubt by addressing the issue just once.( Express your displeasure)
If she doesn't change, then it's your cue to move on!
Women are arguably the sweetest when they like and care for you, in the same vein they are ruthless when they do not want you.
A woman who is interested in you will make it obvious, very obvious. They may not necessarily approach you but they will give you signs that even if you were a novice you will know they are interested.
Genuine desire cannot be negotiated!
If she's not interested let her be.
Don't forget your ability to walk away is your ultimate currency!
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