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It's always in the mind first. Every thought, decision, and idea is first ingrained in our mind, after which it translates into a choice box somewhere in our brain. We weigh the risks, likability, and interest levels, and we reach a conclusion to act or not.   In between all of the above processes is a safe lock (the mindset). It serves as the fuel that transitions the processed information into a loop of uncertainty or clarity. The mindset is also independent of influence. It only projects what is given unto it. That's why it's extremely important to feed it positively, as against being pessimistic.   Let me give a practical analogy. Except on rare occasions, the actor in a movie, the protagonist, will always win irrespective of whatever is thrown at it by the antagonist. Somewhere in my subconscious I already have it ingrained that the actor will always defeat the boss, a local palanche, no matter how disadvantaged he is. Even when it's clear beyond every reasonabl...

Did someone just say God forbid? Lol The average human tends to have a sentimental look out to a situation instead of leaning towards the reality, maybe our religious background and undertones are responsible for this stance. But then does reality care about our feelings and emotions? I assume you can answer that from your lens of understanding. What if the universe is built to reward suffering? The Bible consciously revolved around rewarding pain especially in the face of hopelessness, scars from war and rebellion towards staying put. Bringing it down to our life in general, should suffering with all due respect be in the same sentence as value. I for one can relate to how unfair the world is to me, I think I am good person and I don't deserve the level of pain I have faced. Do you think I do? Do you also deserve better? I have had conversations with the old and their opinions tilts towards the same route, you will appreciate something when you sweat and work hard for it.  From ...

   How do you measure success outside of your terrain?, Especially when it is something you had considered abstract, weird or even an outright waste of time  I had one of the most humbling experiences in recent time. I represented my boss at an event called the readathon 2.0. My idea behind the gathering was simply to read and probably see people dress bougie and decent to depict a supposed imagery that connotes "responsible". Truth be told this is the kind of atmosphere I consider boring based off the kind of audience I am used to( football, party and night outs). The first thing that stood out for me when I got in was seeing faces that I never assumed were in the same city as me. Then it dawned on me, this people exist for what they consider "important" to themselves, i doubt most of them were club and party freaks( there's always exceptions). In the same vein I didn't see any of my regular faces in that space.   Now to the most interesting part, the atmo...