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WHAT IF YOU NEVER RISE AGAIN?



The thought is scary and unfair according to morals and emotions, but reality says otherwise because the truth is neither based on assumptions nor permutations.


We can argue that " the thought of never rising again" is actually an assumption based on the theory of facts.

How then does one navigate through a life of uncertainty?


The bitter truth is that the chances of making something tangible out of life is a herculean task when placed in the ratio of man to man according to the population.


This beget the question,

What if we never rise from afflictions or pain?

What if we never become rich and successful?

What if we don't have a successful marriage?

What if and what if's?


Is there any chance of enjoying life if things don't go our way? Is there fulfillment at the other end of the spectrum.


Christianity will pitch its tent towards Jesus as the helper of the weak and the redeemer, but the average person seems to only believe in success and riches so it becomes increasingly difficult to lean to the hope from church.

What else is there when life is not rosy?


Sadly the majority of the world would never be rich or successful, and we live in the delusion of " I'm the exception", Exception like they say doesn't negate the rule.


A lot of people cannot function without money, love is paid for, genuine affection is transactional and friendships for the most part are untrue and yet these are all necessities for Man!


Accountability is not just about accepting our flaws, it's also accepting the uncertainty of our lives and knowing that every decision is a path, and nothing is a guarantee.


We have to find a way to get the best out of life even in the midst of the negativity as long as there is breath. It would be cruel if after all the struggles there are no genuine friends, love , money and value to hold onto.


God is a path

Faith is a path

Kindness is a path

Love is a path


Let's grow with values and see everything else as an addition to a bea

utiful life span ( short).





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