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WE GROW INTO SYSTEMS WITHOUT ASKING QUESTIONS

 I believe nothing in life is absolute, especially when there is no concrete evidence as to the biological existence of humans.

Almost everything is arguable due to the knowledge of right and wrong.

If there is an advantage then there should be a disadvantage. We grow up into existing ideologies, set ups and doctrines without questioning some of the beliefs even if they don't align with our morals and values as a people.


People aren't inquisitive, they don't ask themselves certain questions. We think things can only be done correctly the way we were taught. 

The human mind is vast and should be capable of making an independent decision.


A lot of people are afraid to question the norm due to the fear of backlash. The idea of criticism in private is stale , as it rarely helps any course. 

Avoiding conflicts but instigating disagreement in little circles is cowardly.


When the foundation is faulty, the building suffers!

The herd mentality stinks!

Why should a burial ceremony be expensive? It should be a time for sorrow, reflection and solace 

Why is marriage rites so complex?

Why can't the Bible be questioned?

Why does the constitution favor the elites?

Why is religion a determinant to morality?


Our ancestors failed to question the system 

Our fathers toiled the same path

And now we are scared to speak.

I guess death is the only reality and surprisingly 

it's unquestionable.


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